About Dr. Oesterling
Dr. Carlotta Oesterling is a clinical psychologist (M.Sc.) specializing in gynecologic psychosomatics and female sexual health. Her approach integrates systemic therapy techniques with a psychosomatic approach to mental health, holding in mind that body and mind cannot be seperated and must both be considered to achieve holistic health and wellbeing.

The path to opening this practice
Dr. Carlotta Oesterling studied clinical psychology at University of Groningen in the Netherlands. During her studies, she developed a strong interest in the connection between the body and the mind. From then on, she aimed to more deeply inquire how lived experiences can affect autoimmunity, sleep, sexual function or hormonal health and – vice versa – how bodily functioning so profoundly can affect the way we feel. As this interplay is especially visible in sexual functioning, she conducted her PhD at the University of Groningen on the effect of psychosocial factors on chronic vulvar pain. Dr. Oesterling has since then worked in the Institute of Sexology and Sexual Medicine at Charité University Hospital and has been continiously training in systemic psychotherapy and gynaecologic psychosomatics. Aiming to create a space for women to navigate the different phases of life, sexuality and relationships, fostering a strong connection to their bodies, and adjusting to changes that come with pregnancy, birth, menopause, or different gynaecological conditions, Dr. Oesterling has founded this practice.
Qualifications
With a PhD in female sexual medicine and ongoing training in systemic psychotherapy, Dr. Oesterling combines her academic background with hands-on clinical experience to provide personalized therapy tailored to each woman’s unique needs and health concerns.
Therapeutic philosophy
Her approach emphasizes empathy, evidence-based practices, and a holistic understanding of the interconnectedness of emotional wellbeing and physical health in women’s lives.
Expertise
Specializing in gynecologic psychosomatics, Dr. Oesterling offers support for issues such as sexual health, hormonal fluctuations, and related emotional challenges impacting women’s overall wellbeing.
Publications & Media
Selected publications and media outlets.

Study: Having Sex Before May Improve Sleep, But Here Are Caveats
Forbes Article

The influence of sexual activity on sleep: A diary study
Diary Study on Relationship between Sexual Activity and Sleep

Factors involved in vulvar pain during sexual activity and persistence in sexual activity amidst pain
Research study on psychosocial factors associated with chronic vulvar pain in women
Further reading
- New Scientist — Pain during intercourse is common in women who have sex with men
- European Sleep Research Society — The influence of sexual activity on sleep
- Mühle, E., Kronthaler, S. M., Oesterling, C., Tissen-Diabaté, T., Beier, K. M., Neymeyer, J., … & Hatzler, L. (2025). Gaps in diagnosis and unmet healthcare needs in male sexual dysfunction and chronic health conditions: insights from a German population-based study. Basic and Clinical Andrology, 35(1), 45.
- Research Gate: Overview of all publications
- Orcid ID: https://orcid.org/0000-0003-0615-6893